03-26-08, 05:54 PM
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Re: Is She Flirting with YOU?
Signs to look for:
You give me butterflies!
Once you make eye contact with a woman, watch her for a few seconds after she looks away. If she does something that implies that she has become nervous due to you making eye contact, this means that she is interested in or attracted to you. For example, she will: play with her hair, adjust her clothing or jewelry or fiddle with something in her hands.
| "read" her palms
She will expose her wrists and palms of her hands only to people she is interested in. This is a subconscious display of being submissive to you, in which her body is saying "If you want me, you can have me".
| Locked on target
Her shoulder orientation is one of the most obvious signs of attraction, so her upper body will most likely be facing you if she is interested. In essence, she points her shoulders at what she wants.
| The lean
Leaning foward is also an easy sign to pick up. If her shoulders point at you and she is leaning towards you, then you can put your mind at ease, it's yours for the taking.
| You coming in or what?
When her legs or feet are widened this means she is very comfortable with her surroundings and with you. Be careful when observing this, if there are other men in the area then it may not be you that is making her comfortable!
| Eyes are not just decoration
Her pupils will dialate (get bigger) while looking at a person that she likes, and in turn will get smaller while looking at a person she does not. Keep in mind that lighting can greatly affect this. For instance, if you are outside when the sun is present her pupils may appear to be very small no matter how much she likes you, and vice versa. The best method to use for testing this is when you can view the change in her pupils when looking at you and then at someone else.
| Say "cheese"
This is a no-brainer. If she smiles at you when you make eye contact, get over there and talk to her.
| When did I become funny?
One of the best signs you can hope for is when she will laugh at just about every slick thing you try to say. You may begin to think that you might actually be pretty funny... but your wrong, she just likes you a lot and that's even better!
| As good as gold
If she touches you multiple times while she is talking, like tapping you on the forearm when trying to make a point, then remember to tell her what you like for breakfast so she knows what to cook in the morning.
| You must do your duty
She will make eye contact with you and hold it for a longer than usual period of time, almost uncomfortably long. Before looking away, remember to smile at her. This will let her know that you are interested and are a nice guy. Following this, you may also notice her glance at you occasionally. After the second or third look it should become obvious to you that she wants you to talk to her, so it is your duty as a player to give her what she wants 
| The flip
If you notice a woman flip her hair and immediately afterward glace your way, she is showing her interest in you and trying to get your attention focused on her by catching your eye. |
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