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Talking How to Turn Almost Any Conversation into a Sexual One



Get her thinking about sex and you have a better chance of getting sex. Sounds simple right... It can be a great example is if she mentions baking, ask her if she is making it from scratch. If she says yes mention that you love scratching.

Top 10: Ways To Flirt Sexually

By David DeAngelo

Did you know that talking about sex with a woman can be the first step to actually having it? Unfortunately, most guys screw up big time when they try to turn a conversation in that direction, and end up coming across as "creepy" or "clueless."

The solution here is to learn how to flirt with a woman in a sexual way. Here are 10 tips to help you do so.

Number 10

Speak in a sexy way
Think you can turn a woman on with a high-pitched, squeaky voice? Think again. Women pay more attention to your voice tone than to the words you speak. When you flirt with a woman in a sexual way, work on improving your delivery. Speak slowly, hold eye contact, deepen your voice and pause. But be careful not to be overdramatic and cheesy. Think James Bond, not Austin Powers. These style points will help you convey powerful sexual undertones in your communications with women, and will help you quickly build sexual tension.

Number 9

Accuse her of being the aggressor
One the best ways to get the fun started is to accuse a woman of trying to seduce you. For example, if she mentions something about her house, such as, "I just moved into a new place," or, "Do you know how to install a wireless router?," say, "Wow, are you trying to get me to come over to your house already? I'm not surprised though." Women love it when men do this. Don't be surprised if she really tries to get you to come over soon after!

Number 8

Imply that you're a stud
Women want men who know how to please them, but you can't come right out and say, "I'm a great lover." Instead, use sexual innuendo to indirectly convey this message. For example, suppose you're at your place making a drink for a woman and she says, "Wow, you're good at that." Look at her square in the eye and say, "I'm good at a lot of things." She'll get the hint that you're a stud, and she'll be dying to find out more.

Number 7

Have her use you
Women accuse men of using them for sex all the time, so why not turn the tables? The next time you do something considerate for a woman, tell her, "So you're using me already -- next thing I know you'll be trying to use me for other things as well." She'll find this role-reversal hilarious, and it's a great way to bring up the topic of sex in a safe, fun and non-threatening way.

Number 6

Sex up boring conversation
When most men first meet a woman, they ask her typical, boring questions like, "Where are you from?" and "What do you do?" Women usually hate it when guys do this, but you can set yourself apart by using these drab questions to turn things in a sexual direction. For example, if you find out a woman is from Spain, you can say to her, "Hmm... you know what they say about women from Spain, don't you?" Then, let your sly smile and solid eye contact suggest that you know Spanish women are... well, let's just say a lot of fun.


Number 5

Bring sex into everyday chat
A great way to flirt sexually with a woman is to compare some "outside the bedroom" activities to "inside the bedroom" activities. For example, let's suppose you bring a female guest a cup of tea. You can follow by saying, "Looks like you're on the receiving end today. Do you always receive, or do you like to give at times, too?" Crack a slight smile, and she will know exactly what you're talking about.

Number 4

Offer to pay her back
Oftentimes, a woman will do something nice, then tease by saying, "That's okay, you can pay me back later." Why not make the currency sexual? Say something like, "Pay you back... ummm... I'm short on cash right now. Do you have any creative payment options in mind?"

Number 3

Tell her she's naughty
Another fun way to tease a woman in a sexual way is to accuse her of being "naughty" in her everyday activities. For example, if a woman tells you she was just in the shower, ask her how it was. If she gives any positive response, reply with something like, "Nice shower? Interesting. What exactly were you doing in there that made it so nice? I'm curious."

Number 2

Show that you're sex-savvy
Want to know a secret about female sexuality that 99% of men don't know? Here it is: Many women feel compelled to vacuum their house each month when they're ovulating. Some experts believe it has something to do with wanting to "clean the nest" before laying her "egg." So when a woman tells you she is vacuuming, say "Vacuuming? What, are you ovulating or something?" She'll be stunned that you know this, and she'll wonder what else you know about female sexuality. Of course, if she doesn't know what you mean, fill her in. Women love it when you teach them something new, especially about themselves.

Number 1

Find double meanings
The English language is literally packed with words you can twist around to create sexual meanings. Wet, juicy, hard, fast, hot... the possibilities are endless. For example, if she says her drink is big, you can reply with something like "Big can be a good thing, don't you think?" Once you start looking for opportunities, you'll be surprised how easy it is to add a bit of sexuality to everyday conversations.
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