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Originally Posted by mofome
if i may ask...what happened? if u cant tell me on here maybe email? these things interest me. i Hate break ups even if ive been ready to break up with the girl for a while. im a wuss about that kinda thing. and this girl i REALLY want to keep!
Im glad things are better for u. i think a few months is how long it takes me before im ok with things. but maybe not this time
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we went through a lot when i was still drinking. i would lie about where i was so i could get drunk without her bothering me. i'd promise her i'd do something then flake, and so on. even after i quit drinking last september, there was still no trust. she was reading my mail, my email, always having to know where i was and what i was doing. i stuck it out for awhile, partly because i hoped we could build trust and partly because i felt like i owed her this kind of emotional debt for helping me quit boozing. but a man can only live with so much. so we finally called it quits in january. i wish her the best but it wasn't meant to be.