he emailed me today and said he was out for the holidays. ive stated several times that i was surprised that he had not communicated and that he was very kind in all of our personal dealings. i realize that some things have been said/implied about him but he wrote me and was very classy as he always has been. i understand why my good bud atrain was upset and doubted things. i think the lines of communication were not what they should have been and therefore the integrity of that wager suffered. i hope these gents can smooth things out. But...it should be said, that mr spooner has made contact and did not appreciate his name being ripped up. i understand that people say things in the heat of the moment. i hope spooner will pay and atrain will recant some of the negativity thats been posted about arthur spooner. at the end of the day, we're all blessed to be here. atrain has an amazing son and is a very good capper. mr spooner isnt someone i know well, but he seems to do well with his capping and he also seems to be a polite and classy guy. 250 isnt going to make or break anyone, but it feels shity to feel as if you were stiffed. i think we understand why atrain would have felt that way.
anyway, mr spooner should pay the debt, atrain should take back lots of whats been said, and we should move on. whats important is that everyone communicates well and is understanding of the fact that we're all individuals with families and schedules. understanding, honesty, and communication are all that we need. fuck it, we're just trying to have some fun and figure out a way to get from one day to the next.
no more bashing of arthur. mr spooner, im sorry you had to deal with this shit. atrain, im sorry you had to wait and felt like you were fucked over. both of those things are dreadful feelings, and who the fuck wants their friends to have even a slightly worse day due to something like this? i know i dont.
all the best, guys.
