[Blondie]

The following actions are considered to be REAL flirting indicators - check them out and see if you're sending (and receiving) the right message:


How to tell she likes you:

She gazes in your eyes with deep interest and her pupils are dilated.

Her skin tone becomes red while being around you.

She raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours.

She rubs her chin or touches her cheek. This indicates that she's thinking about you and her relating in some way...

Plays with her jewelry, especially with stroking and pulling motions.She winks at you while talking to you or winks at you from a distance.

She exposes the palms of her hand facing you.

Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue, licking her lips or touching of her front teeth...

She starts sitting straight up and her muscles appear to be firm.

She puts her fingernail between her teeth.

She laughs in unison with you.

She touches your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hand while talking to you.

She twirls her hair around her fingers while she is looking at you.

Her crossed leg is pointed towards you or if that same leg is rocking back and forth towards you.

While talking to you, she rest an elbow in the palm of one hand, while holding out her other hand, palm up.

In a crowd she speaks only to you and focuses all of her undivided attention on you.

While talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her eyelashes.

Big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing with a relaxed face.

She speeds up or slows down her speaking to match yours.

Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then a smile usually indicates interest in you.

She rubs her wrists up and down

Flirting Tips

[winkyduck]

like most guys i stink at reading signs. on more than a few occasions i thought i was getting signs to ask her out - and i did - and i was shot down at WARP SPEED. unless she rips off her clothes and throws herself on me screaming "I WANT YOU TO FUCK ME NOW!" i am clueless

[Blondie]

Signs to look for:

You give me butterflies! Once you make eye contact with a woman, watch her for a few seconds after she looks away. If she does something that implies that she has become nervous due to you making eye contact, this means that she is interested in or attracted to you. For example, she will: play with her hair, adjust her clothing or jewelry or fiddle with something in her hands.

"read" her palms She will expose her wrists and palms of her hands only to people she is interested in. This is a subconscious display of being submissive to you, in which her body is saying "If you want me, you can have me".

Locked on target Her shoulder orientation is one of the most obvious signs of attraction, so her upper body will most likely be facing you if she is interested. In essence, she points her shoulders at what she wants.

The lean Leaning foward is also an easy sign to pick up. If her shoulders point at you and she is leaning towards you, then you can put your mind at ease, it's yours for the taking.

You coming in or what? When her legs or feet are widened this means she is very comfortable with her surroundings and with you. Be careful when observing this, if there are other men in the area then it may not be you that is making her comfortable!

Eyes are not just decoration Her pupils will dialate (get bigger) while looking at a person that she likes, and in turn will get smaller while looking at a person she does not. Keep in mind that lighting can greatly affect this. For instance, if you are outside when the sun is present her pupils may appear to be very small no matter how much she likes you, and vice versa. The best method to use for testing this is when you can view the change in her pupils when looking at you and then at someone else.

Say "cheese" This is a no-brainer. If she smiles at you when you make eye contact, get over there and talk to her.

When did I become funny? One of the best signs you can hope for is when she will laugh at just about every slick thing you try to say. You may begin to think that you might actually be pretty funny... but your wrong, she just likes you a lot and that's even better!

As good as gold If she touches you multiple times while she is talking, like tapping you on the forearm when trying to make a point, then remember to tell her what you like for breakfast so she knows what to cook in the morning.

You must do your duty She will make eye contact with you and hold it for a longer than usual period of time, almost uncomfortably long. Before looking away, remember to smile at her. This will let her know that you are interested and are a nice guy. Following this, you may also notice her glance at you occasionally. After the second or third look it should become obvious to you that she wants you to talk to her, so it is your duty as a player to give her what she wants

The flip If you notice a woman flip her hair and immediately afterward glace your way, she is showing her interest in you and trying to get your attention focused on her by catching your eye.

[Blondie]

Signs Winky is use to seeing

The Closed Gestures

It's about time to "roll" on out Whenever a woman that you are gaming rolls her eyes it means that she is embarrassed by your presence and is attempting to display to everyone else that she is not interested in you. If this happens to you turn around and walk away, you have little (if any) chance of getting with her.

X does not mark the spot Crossing her arms is a tell-tale sign that she is either agitated, nervous, uncomfortable or just does not like you. It's time to change your strategy, and quick.

The great wall of vagina Crossing her legs is just as bad as crossing her arms, but can be worse because once her legs are crossed she will most likely cross her arms also. However, if her legs are crossed and pointing towards you (knee points toward you), this means that she is nervous but has interest in you. On the other hand, if her knee points away... you're in trouble.

Just... get away The "lean back" is the most dreaded sign in all female body language. If she is leaning away from you and it is very noticeable, my advice is to forget her and move on to your next prospect. Only a very experienced (and lucky) player can warm up to a woman after noticing this type of behavior, but if you think you've got the skills then give it a try, you've got nothing to lose.

[SHAWN GOTTI]

HOW DO YOU KNOW IF SHE WANTS YOU TO SUCK HER TOES?

[Artful Dodger]

Girls never pay me any mind so, I never wonder this

[Blondie]

Originally Posted by SHAWN GOTTI

HOW DO YOU KNOW IF SHE WANTS YOU TO SUCK HER TOES?

My guess is she will tell you, or if you try and she does not kick your teeth out that might work too

[SHAWN GOTTI]

Originally Posted by Blondie

My guess is she will tell you, or if you try and she does not kick your teeth out that might work too

THANKS FOR THE GREAT ADVICE!