MRSOSUCOWBOYS
EOG Addicted
that are mean and control them?
I never would have thought Travis was mean and controlling. Just does not come across that way in the forums. Hopefully he has enough $ to make it tolerable.
Appropriate cliche: Guess you never know.
OF...:+waving-5
Not me silly, a friend!!!
love the shrink version.
I do think $ plays a big part.
Whether you like it or not, we are influenced by two main entities, genes and environment...
Many women who choose "controlling" men as boyfriends/husbands do so unconsciously. Quite often, these women have had a parent (usually a Father figure but it doesn't have to be) who was domineering and controlling to them throughout most of their lives. In a perverse way, the women are comfortable in this environment even though consciously, they may even recognize it is dysfunctional...
The reason they stay is once again on a subconscious level. They believe that in some way they can "fix" these men and create a "happy" ending to their miserable childhood.
Needless to say, this doesn't work out well at all and quite often, these same women put up with so much more that goes with 'control' such as emotional, mental and even physical abuse...
THE SHRINK
Insecurity.
Emotional abuse.
Denial.
There are many reasons.
I stayed with one because he had me convinced that I couldn't do any better.
Sounds to me like the only reasons a woman stays with a man are that she has some calculating ulterior advantage to do so or suffers from some deep-seated psychobabble flaw that compels her to stay.
Could "She just likes the guy" possibly be an answer?
Sounds to me like the only reasons a woman stays with a man are that she has some calculating ulterior advantage to do so or suffers from some deep-seated psychobabble flaw that compels her to stay.
Could "She just likes the guy" possibly be an answer?
Very few people I know enjoy being controlled or abused...:nono
Very few people I know enjoy being controlled or abused...:nono
some women like bad boys oooor just like being controlled
No...little girls like "bad boys".
I stayed with one because he had me convinced that I couldn't do any better.
Because they think some how they have no choice...2348ji23ethat are mean and control them?
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The way women/girls are nowadays and you're asking this?!? :+clueless
why cant they be big girls?
It boggles the mind really how someone so together and with it can feel this way about herself by what some guy says. If Sweded can feel that way, it's no wonder many more women fall prey to this thinking.