the xwife is one thing......but his daughter and momma!!! just pray he didn't tell them........
:sad i pushed my boyfriend to hard and it backfired..... i said mean things to hurt him and very mean things about his xwife mother and daughter.... . i didnt mean for it to go this far, and i have now lost him for good. we have had many troubled times in the past and got thru them but i went too far............. is there anything i can do..... or do i just go away?
diggin'4gold Not sure when i figure it out I'll let you know.. It seams to happen more when i drink..My Head hurts:doh1I would like to know what it is that makes you so angry?
Keneke your right, and i went about it in the wrong way. Thanks. The funny thing is this morning. I feel lighter, and some what releaved that he is gone..From a mans perspective:
Look for the root of your anger.
Him spending nights with his ex may be the problem as it is not respectful to your relationship.
Your anger may be nothing more than you demanding respect expressed in the wrong way.
Think about what you said to him. We usually say what we feel when we lose control. Whether losing control is alcohol related our pent up anger, it is a release of what we would never say in a controlled situation.
I don't know what you said but it appears you needed to say it.
A real man will always respect a mate that stands her ground.
Yah i sure was on a roll that's forsure..the xwife is one thing......but his daughter and momma!!! just pray he didn't tell them........
:sad i pushed my boyfriend to hard and it backfired..... i said mean things to hurt him and very mean things about his xwife mother and daughter.... . i didnt mean for it to go this far, and i have now lost him for good. we have had many troubled times in the past and got thru them but i went too far............. is there anything i can do..... or do i just go away?
Thanks shrink, will see what happens... :kissYou seem like a sweet person.
Just give it some time, then do the right thing and apologize sincerely...12io4j2w90
I do feel bad dose that count?Try and be a better person. You don't sound very nice. Figure out why you're the way you are and maybe the next person you meet will be lucky to have you.
It only counts if you don't repeat that behavior in the future.I do feel bad dose that count?
HIGHLANDPARKDR Thank you !!! Time is good..Give the "MAN" some time to re-think the entire situation he will hopefully realize that you do care for him & if its meant to be then you'll be fine AGAIN, but give the man some "time" to re-evaluate where he & you guys are in "Life" And Best of Luck
DR
Flamingo kid, I do want to do the right thing. You're right life is short..It only counts if you don't repeat that behavior in the future.
Look in the mirror and ask yourself what kind of person you want to be going forward. Asking for help/advice is the first step in the right direction. Life is short, do the right thing.
okay Thanks panther i will do just that.. Will take my mind off things.dont let it spoil your weekend
do something you enjoy doing