Haha, well one of mine was proposing to my girlfriend. I didn't expect to do that until the end of the year but I knew she would be expecting it then so I had to do it earlier. I also try to make it a goal to get in shape every year but so far I've been more concerned with finding a job and finishing up my MBA.
I never make one.
How good an idea can you come up with black out drunk on the last day of the year? Honestly I think its just silly in general. Why make a false promise to yourself that you'll probably fail at? If you actually want to do that, the other 364 days of the year work fine also.
a rebirth of the mind/soul. a fine consideration, but tremendously flawed as you noted. Even still, the positive nature behind the premise is a good thing. Gets people feeling good about themselves for a bit and, for a spell, creates goals.
Give me the person with the positive frame of mind now, and we'll deal with the failure should we get there. One day at a time.
I like that...on to tomorrow. :whip:a rebirth of the mind/soul. a fine consideration, but tremendously flawed as you noted. Even still, the positive nature behind the premise is a good thing. Gets people feeling good about themselves for a bit and, for a spell, creates goals.
Give me the person with the positive frame of mind now, and we'll deal with the failure should we get there. One day at a time.
solid
Classic. As soon as I saw Mo's post I knew you would come give him props for the use of "positive" thinking.
I call bs.
Anyone that can think for themselves and make goals does NOT need a special day to do it. I know this for fact. Also, as you mentioned, failure is common. Isn't it healthier and more positive to make a reasonable goal to accomplish so you feel good about the journey, as well as the end?
Not trying to argue about dumb shit like this, I just feel new year resolutions are intrinsically set up to fail.
Classic. As soon as I saw Mo's post I knew you would come give him props for the use of "positive" thinking.
I call bs.
Anyone that can think for themselves and make goals does NOT need a special day to do it. I know this for fact. Also, as you mentioned, failure is common. Isn't it healthier and more positive to make a reasonable goal to accomplish so you feel good about the journey, as well as the end?
Not trying to argue about dumb shit like this, I just feel new year resolutions are intrinsically set up to fail.
janus, sounds like somebody is contemplating.
that sounds like a phone call this week.
what are you, a psychologist now? i know you work for one, lets not get carried away.
Shrink and I never talk about psychology. I was thinking more along the lines of a friendly phone call rather than a break down of the scenario. But, as you wish. Of course.
For some reason I can't quote your post Mo. Anyways, in response to it-
I didn't say not to attempt to make goals at all, rather make reasonable ones so you can feel good about your accomplishment. I think setting of solid goals is much easier on days that aren't NYE when you have other things on your mind. That goes for you too, diogee! Though you get a pass unlike mo since you are a niner's fan.
ah, man, i know, just giving you shit. ribbing is tough over forum lines.
resolutions are for people who don't have the discipline to make positive changes on their own..they need some mythical day in order to start.
Winners just make changes without having to rely on Jan 1st to get them to do things they should do anyway.
mine was to lose wieght and I am still sticking to it.
haha it can be.
been a great night on the boards for me man. no matter what scrimmage may think of us.
mo, i sent you a pm...
haha yeah we used to do that all the time. not sure why it stopped. we were trying to build on it but didnt have enough people with a ps3.
thats fun though. some nights we had a bunch of people following different games.
Quit smoking cigs which I've done
New Fifa comes out in a month!
less than a month...oct 10th right? real is gonna be UNSTOPPABLE...
Them and Barca will be the only teams used online
Oct 20 I believe
demo is out now, check it out
Quit smoking cigs which I've done
New Fifa comes out in a month!
i agree with bagadonuts....resolutions are silly