Blondie
EOG Master
My oldest son turned 12 today. His biological father has not seen him in probably two years now (I lost track). Last time I spoke with him was in November, he called when I was in other town and my son was not with me. It's been at least a year since he last spoke with my son.
So today he calls and I missed his call. He leaves a message of "Just called to tell D**** happy birthday." My son tries to call him back about 10 minutes later with no response. He has not called back since then.
To say the least my son is having a hard time understanding why this man does not even seem to care at all. Why he makes no effort to come see him, no phone calls, nothing. My son is angry and has expressed this many times.
I allowed my son to get a facebook account so that they could possibly communicate that way, but even though the guy is online every day there has been no communication between him and my son. My son will send him something such as "hi" and get little to no response.
How can my husband and I help him learn to live with the way things are?
It breaks my heart to see this hurt him, but I am truly at a loss on what to say. I refuse to bad mouth his father as much as I would like to, so I often answer with "I don't know"
So today he calls and I missed his call. He leaves a message of "Just called to tell D**** happy birthday." My son tries to call him back about 10 minutes later with no response. He has not called back since then.
To say the least my son is having a hard time understanding why this man does not even seem to care at all. Why he makes no effort to come see him, no phone calls, nothing. My son is angry and has expressed this many times.
I allowed my son to get a facebook account so that they could possibly communicate that way, but even though the guy is online every day there has been no communication between him and my son. My son will send him something such as "hi" and get little to no response.
How can my husband and I help him learn to live with the way things are?
It breaks my heart to see this hurt him, but I am truly at a loss on what to say. I refuse to bad mouth his father as much as I would like to, so I often answer with "I don't know"