Re: OT: YOUR GIRLFRIEND OR WIFE GIVES YOU THIS ULTIMATUM: WHAT DO U DO?
As crazyl points out, if it is not destructive or infringing on other areas of your life, then what harm is it. If you are profiting from it, then it seems like a silly power play.
What would she have to give up in return, luxuries like pedicures or a girl's night out? There should be some quid pro quo goin going on there. Ultimatums are a risky way to deal with issues between you. It's a lose-lose proposition. No matter is decided, there will be bad feelings for one party.