I am all F***ed UP
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Journeyman
EOG Master
Re: I am all F***ed UP
By any chance does the r12 mean you were bending chicks over the AC unit at age 12?
:+clueless
By any chance does the r12 mean you were bending chicks over the AC unit at age 12?
:+clueless
Blondie
EOG Master
texansfan
EOG Master
Re: I am all F***ed UP
First, may I say this is one of the best first posts I've ever read - ever.
Second, you're gonna have to come clean with the wife, find out if this child is yours and, if so, try and find something within you that prompts you to do the right thing. Dig deep.
First, may I say this is one of the best first posts I've ever read - ever.
Second, you're gonna have to come clean with the wife, find out if this child is yours and, if so, try and find something within you that prompts you to do the right thing. Dig deep.
5 star bomb
EOG Master
Re: I am all F***ed UP
abortion
abortion
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Honey, we're trying. We need more information.
Are you sure it's yours?
I assume she's keeping it, right?
How serious were you with this girl?
Honey, we're trying. We need more information.
Are you sure it's yours?
I assume she's keeping it, right?
How serious were you with this girl?
Re: I am all F***ed UP
IF it is, in fact, yours...
Well, serves you fucking right for disrespecting your wife like that. You're going to have to tell her. She WILL notice you sending money to CR. Plus, eventually, the mom or the kid are going to show up at your house. Do you want your wife to have to meet your kid as a teenager. I think at this point you at least owe her the truth about what she married so she can decide if she wants to stick around. If you're looking for sympathy, you're not going to get it. You fucked up. You can deal with it like a man, or be even more of a scumbag. Your choice.
IF it is, in fact, yours...
Well, serves you fucking right for disrespecting your wife like that. You're going to have to tell her. She WILL notice you sending money to CR. Plus, eventually, the mom or the kid are going to show up at your house. Do you want your wife to have to meet your kid as a teenager. I think at this point you at least owe her the truth about what she married so she can decide if she wants to stick around. If you're looking for sympathy, you're not going to get it. You fucked up. You can deal with it like a man, or be even more of a scumbag. Your choice.
5 star bomb
EOG Master
Re: I am all F***ed UP
do what texansfan did and be a deadbeat dad. Run away from CR
do what texansfan did and be a deadbeat dad. Run away from CR
texansfan
EOG Master
Re: I am all F***ed UP
I remember once when you were funny, no wait, that was someone else.
Grow up and act like your over 21.
I remember once when you were funny, no wait, that was someone else.
Grow up and act like your over 21.
Re: I am all F***ed UP
Rocco
Might be tough to get solid advice here on this issue. When I am having serious family issues I like to seek advice from my posting buddies on the NASCAR forums. If I am having peronal problems I like to go to some of the porno boards for advice. GL
Rocco
Might be tough to get solid advice here on this issue. When I am having serious family issues I like to seek advice from my posting buddies on the NASCAR forums. If I am having peronal problems I like to go to some of the porno boards for advice. GL
texansfan
EOG Master
Re: I am all F***ed UP
Even better still, where do you of all people get off calling someone a deadbeat? Seems to me you still owe payment on a debt from the SUPERBOWL. Wasn't the SB back in early February?
Seems to me you are the definition of a deadbeat, or stiff, or loser, whichever term you prefer.
Even better still, where do you of all people get off calling someone a deadbeat? Seems to me you still owe payment on a debt from the SUPERBOWL. Wasn't the SB back in early February?
Seems to me you are the definition of a deadbeat, or stiff, or loser, whichever term you prefer.
Enfuego
EOG Dedicated
Re: I am all F***ed UP
5-Star, don't take this as disrespectul because I'm going to make a serious effort from here on out to have sensible conversations on this forum but you really aren't qualified to give comment to this guys problem. You're not married nor do you have children. More importantly, you're too young to give this guy solid advice.
5-Star, don't take this as disrespectul because I'm going to make a serious effort from here on out to have sensible conversations on this forum but you really aren't qualified to give comment to this guys problem. You're not married nor do you have children. More importantly, you're too young to give this guy solid advice.
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yeah was pretty heavy I guess, but still love my wife she wasn't here, I fucked up, Now she is having the baby, My wife will be devistated , Wow, this is really screwed up. I am sure the kid is mine, want to do the right thing, don't wont to marry her though that is for sure. I got way to carried away not looking for sympathy just looking on how to handle the best way
yeah was pretty heavy I guess, but still love my wife she wasn't here, I fucked up, Now she is having the baby, My wife will be devistated , Wow, this is really screwed up. I am sure the kid is mine, want to do the right thing, don't wont to marry her though that is for sure. I got way to carried away not looking for sympathy just looking on how to handle the best way
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I feel for you, but at the end of the day, you did the wrong thing and you're gonna have to pay the piper. Tell your wife - you;ll only make it worse by not including her. After the initial shock of your complete and utter stupidity, she may actually have the heart to forgive you and help you work through this mess.
I feel for you, but at the end of the day, you did the wrong thing and you're gonna have to pay the piper. Tell your wife - you;ll only make it worse by not including her. After the initial shock of your complete and utter stupidity, she may actually have the heart to forgive you and help you work through this mess.
Enfuego
EOG Dedicated
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I'm not a lawyer but a lawyer would tell you not to be sure whatsoever the kid is yours. GET A DNA TEST PLEASE!
But dude let's face the facts shall we? You don't love your wife if you're banging another broad. If this child is in fact yours there's only one choice brother. You must sit your wife down and let it all out. Be prepared for her to leave you and if she does then you deserve it but it's not cool at all to live a lie for this woman and deceive her every day. Let her live her life with or without you.
People make mistakes partner. That's part of life. what can you do other than live? Tomorrow is a new day so start fresh but you must do the right thing here.
I'm not a lawyer but a lawyer would tell you not to be sure whatsoever the kid is yours. GET A DNA TEST PLEASE!
But dude let's face the facts shall we? You don't love your wife if you're banging another broad. If this child is in fact yours there's only one choice brother. You must sit your wife down and let it all out. Be prepared for her to leave you and if she does then you deserve it but it's not cool at all to live a lie for this woman and deceive her every day. Let her live her life with or without you.
People make mistakes partner. That's part of life. what can you do other than live? Tomorrow is a new day so start fresh but you must do the right thing here.
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I remembered being told it happened to a(GRINGO) guy down here a couple years ago, he wasnt really cool or honest about it I heard, Just did the wrong thing, Dont want to end up like that because that shit comes and bites you right back in the ass and then some more. I need to hear from guys who have been there and done it the right way. No cowards, No fools, just a stand up guy
I remembered being told it happened to a(GRINGO) guy down here a couple years ago, he wasnt really cool or honest about it I heard, Just did the wrong thing, Dont want to end up like that because that shit comes and bites you right back in the ass and then some more. I need to hear from guys who have been there and done it the right way. No cowards, No fools, just a stand up guy
Enfuego
EOG Dedicated
Re: I am all F***ed UP
Alright brother let me tell you how it works. I was dating my future wife and it was about 6 months in and we were actually already living together.
I went to my home for the weekend (we lived together in college) and I got drunk and poked a skank of a girl I met at a bar. I immediately felt sick to my stomach and very angry I did it to begin with. I started thinking about my GF and wondering what the hell I would do. Well, I came back to our house and there was only one option. I sat her down and told her the entire story. I spared no detail and at the end of the conversation I gave her 2 options. A) You leave me because I'm a scumbag or B) You forgive me and I promise on everything in life it will never ever happen again. She chose option B.
Now, does she trust me now? Well, I think she has 5% doubt when I go on a business trip etc. but after 10 years of marriage and 3 children later it turns out my decision and her decision were the right decisions. I would never ever stray on her because I made a promise to her and she trusted me never to break that promise. I would be a gigantic scumbag if I ever betrayed her trust again. She is my best friend and a great mother.
Was it tough at first after my mistake? Hell yes, she didn't trust me for 1 second but I've proven my worth to her and proven to her a person can make up for a mistake. What a fucking idiot I was at 23-years-old.
Alright brother let me tell you how it works. I was dating my future wife and it was about 6 months in and we were actually already living together.
I went to my home for the weekend (we lived together in college) and I got drunk and poked a skank of a girl I met at a bar. I immediately felt sick to my stomach and very angry I did it to begin with. I started thinking about my GF and wondering what the hell I would do. Well, I came back to our house and there was only one option. I sat her down and told her the entire story. I spared no detail and at the end of the conversation I gave her 2 options. A) You leave me because I'm a scumbag or B) You forgive me and I promise on everything in life it will never ever happen again. She chose option B.
Now, does she trust me now? Well, I think she has 5% doubt when I go on a business trip etc. but after 10 years of marriage and 3 children later it turns out my decision and her decision were the right decisions. I would never ever stray on her because I made a promise to her and she trusted me never to break that promise. I would be a gigantic scumbag if I ever betrayed her trust again. She is my best friend and a great mother.
Was it tough at first after my mistake? Hell yes, she didn't trust me for 1 second but I've proven my worth to her and proven to her a person can make up for a mistake. What a fucking idiot I was at 23-years-old.
Re: I am all F***ed UP
horseshit. Did you love your wife when you were pokin' your penis inside of some other woman? I mean, were you really loving your wife then? No sir. 12io4j2w90
horseshit. Did you love your wife when you were pokin' your penis inside of some other woman? I mean, were you really loving your wife then? No sir. 12io4j2w90
RageWizard
EOG Senior Member
Re: I am all F***ed UP
Yes dude you need to ask about an abortion. If this doesn't happen for you then, it looks like you will need to own up to it and support the mother and child. Then try telling your wife how your load came to be in her snatch. I'm a pretty smooth talker, but I haven't needed to figure out that excuse.
Yes dude you need to ask about an abortion. If this doesn't happen for you then, it looks like you will need to own up to it and support the mother and child. Then try telling your wife how your load came to be in her snatch. I'm a pretty smooth talker, but I haven't needed to figure out that excuse.
Enfuego
EOG Dedicated
Re: I am all F***ed UP
Swede and Sportsgirl, let me assure you that I know women. I read Cosmo and listen to S. Mclachlan and all that jazz. Why? Because that's the shit she reads and listens to. I try to get one step ahead of her so I'm playing the game before she even puts on her uniform. I've learned a thing or two over the last 10 years.
I've learned what I can and can't say (that fucking glare is a dead giveaway) and I know when enough is enough. There's times in life where you just have to jump on the grenade and take one for the team. I've taken a lot of grenades in my day.
Swede and Sportsgirl, let me assure you that I know women. I read Cosmo and listen to S. Mclachlan and all that jazz. Why? Because that's the shit she reads and listens to. I try to get one step ahead of her so I'm playing the game before she even puts on her uniform. I've learned a thing or two over the last 10 years.
I've learned what I can and can't say (that fucking glare is a dead giveaway) and I know when enough is enough. There's times in life where you just have to jump on the grenade and take one for the team. I've taken a lot of grenades in my day.
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Nobody's asking the right questions:
1) If you hopped on a plane tomorrow and flew home, does pregnant girl have a way to track you?
2) Are you familiar w/ CR paternity laws?
3) What is the going rate for a "hit" in CR?
Whatever happened to what happens in CR, stays in CR
Nobody's asking the right questions:
1) If you hopped on a plane tomorrow and flew home, does pregnant girl have a way to track you?
2) Are you familiar w/ CR paternity laws?
3) What is the going rate for a "hit" in CR?
Whatever happened to what happens in CR, stays in CR
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Exactly. This was my first thought. Go home and fogetaboudit.
She is likely full of shit anyway.
Exactly. This was my first thought. Go home and fogetaboudit.
She is likely full of shit anyway.
Enfuego
EOG Dedicated
Re: I am all F***ed UP
But even if she gets an abortion you are going to walk around everyday with the worst guilty feeling. You will always know you're hiding something and let me assure you boys that feeling is almost the worst I've ever experienced.
But even if she gets an abortion you are going to walk around everyday with the worst guilty feeling. You will always know you're hiding something and let me assure you boys that feeling is almost the worst I've ever experienced.
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Smart man! I'm lucky to have a boyfriend who seems to posses those same skills. He knows when to pick his battles. He knows when to shut the fuck up. Granted, I may be being an unreasonable bitch, but arguing with me is NOT going to make me nicer. I have never understood why more men can't grasp that.
Cheating for me isn't a cut and dry thing. I can't say for sure I would leave him if he cheated. That said, carrying on a relationship while I'm in another country missing him then getting the chick pregnant might be a little much for me to get past.
In your situation, Enfuego, I would have kept you around too. You didn't have to tell your wife. She probably never would have found out, but you are a good man and you felt terrible about your actions...as you should have. It speaks volumes to your character that you came straight home and told her.
Smart man! I'm lucky to have a boyfriend who seems to posses those same skills. He knows when to pick his battles. He knows when to shut the fuck up. Granted, I may be being an unreasonable bitch, but arguing with me is NOT going to make me nicer. I have never understood why more men can't grasp that.
Cheating for me isn't a cut and dry thing. I can't say for sure I would leave him if he cheated. That said, carrying on a relationship while I'm in another country missing him then getting the chick pregnant might be a little much for me to get past.
In your situation, Enfuego, I would have kept you around too. You didn't have to tell your wife. She probably never would have found out, but you are a good man and you felt terrible about your actions...as you should have. It speaks volumes to your character that you came straight home and told her.