im entertaining the notion of having a girl come to live with me. she needs some help and i never turn down the chance to help someone, but she happens to look great and be someone i used to 'date' a bit.
bad idea?
depends on why you stopped dating her. remember, you broke it off for a reason....
she was depressed and would unleash the fury on me from time to time. she is a great girl, lots of fun, nice looking, and bright. i will make a vid with her tomorrow. not porn, RPM, we'll get an eog vid.
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You can bet that hasn't changed Mo. She sounds like trouble imo.
If she's on the pill and has a job, move her in.
It seems one thing I've learned after all these years is that for the most part people don't change who they really are. It's a nice concept, but people are who they are in most instances.
Could be she just needed to grow up a little. Buy a 30 day supply of rubbers and give her a month to see how it works out.
Hey, Mo, I step into the fire here, brotha. You've been a great friend to me and as such, I will volunteer my time and well being for the cause. I will try her out for a month and report back weekly on her positives and negatives...Now, now, don't thank me, just consider this a small token of my appreciation for the great friend you have become.:cheers
Mo, buddy to buddy don't do this man. I did it once many years ago and it was a total hell. I eventually had to lie to the girl to get her to move out. I was helping her out, but she was the proverbial "give her an inch and she'll take a mile" type. Its always true, one is lucky to find a good roomate that is a friend. My rule before I finally stopped having roomates was to always keep it professional. Share a place with a random person. Friends just have too much temptation to use you or take advantage of you. Keep it civil with a former stranger and it usually works for the best.
my last two roommates were good friends who took advantage of the situation. i let each live with me for free because they were down on their luck. one just got released from jail and was sleeping in a homeless shelter...i got him to work each day and everything, but he never helped around the house and eventually i had to kick his tail a bit. he is doing really well now though.
Mo,
My advice would be to do it if you let her know up front that if it doesn't work out then she will have to go. Maybe let her know that you are willing to try it but will be glad to help her find somewhere else if it isn't going good.
Also, I would suggest that you know better than me or anyone else. Do you think it would be a good thing? You don't want to ruin a friendship, but at the same time you don't want to pass up an opportunity to help a friend.
Don't stop something good from happening if you think it may work out. Does she have any plans to return to Hawaii, or is she free spirited and not really sure?
I am sure she did alot of growing up between 20 and 23, I know I did.
Good luck man. It would be hard to keep a hot girl thats done some modeling out of my house. Unless, of course my fiance was home. :cheers
Exactly my thoughts. People have to realize roomate situations are business transactions. You can be friends with this chick without her living there. In fact you probably would get better action if that is what you wanted because if she is around there might be a lot of drama.
I don't get how guys always think of getting action comes from living with a woman. You live with a woman because you get along well with her in personality, not because you fuck her. I don't know a man alive who could tell you the sex got better after a chick moved in. It might happen a bit more, but the quality goes way down when you or she doesn't leave at the end of the night.
If she's on the pill and has a job, move her in.
im entertaining the notion of having a girl come to live with me. she needs some help and i never turn down the chance to help someone, but she happens to look great and be someone i used to 'date' a bit.
bad idea?